“He that is without sin… cast the first stone.”
- John 8 : 7
By now I’m sure everyone has heard about the untimely death of Whitney Houston, a beautiful and talented woman many regard as “The Voice.” Though no cause has yet been cited, media is already speculating and reporting its own theories with the focus quickly turning from her remarkable career to her much-publicized substance abuse and occasional erratic behavior. Even worse, some are questioning what her legacy will be in spite of all that her music has meant to so many.
In this age of social media, news magazines, reality TV, etc. we may feel that we actually know the people we see and hear through these mediums. But the fact is… we don’t know them or their struggles… so who are we to judge them? They’re human just like the rest of us with many of the same challenges we face. The only difference is that their lives are played out for all to see – and comment on.
Think about it.
Who among us hasn’t had bad relationships, issues with family, made mistakes at work, acquired bad habits, or didn’t live up to someone else’s expectations? In my opinion, that’s about all she was guilty of. To my knowledge, she never hurt anyone except for her pristine image, which she may not have ever wanted to begin with because of the pressure required to maintain it. Yet, for years her transgressions have played out in the media for all to see and judge her by. I can’t imagine the strength it took to survive that kind of scrutiny. I’m not defending her just because I am a fan of her music (Really, who isn’t?). I say this because she was just a person, and a mother. I remember watching her interview on Oprah a few years ago, as she attempted a comeback. She joked that sometimes she fantasized about running off to an island with her daughter, opening a fruit stand, and living an unassuming life far removed from the public; however, her gift for music wouldn’t allow her to. At the time, I sincerely hoped she would find the peace necessary to live the life she wanted. Now, I can only hope she was able to do so before she passed.
Over the next few weeks or maybe even years, much will be said and written about Whitney Houston. Those who knew her personally may separate fact from fiction. As for the rest of us, let’s try to withhold judgment, keeping in mind that none of us are perfect. And perhaps more importantly, pray that her daughter and family find peace during this difficult time.
Your comments are welcome.
