The First Steps

"Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice; it is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved."

-          William Jennings Bryan

Can you believe that 2010 is nearing its end?  The New Year is fast approaching and, like millions, you may already be thinking about resolutions.  According to research, weight loss, exercise, and smoking cessation top the list, followed by money management and debt reduction. 

While I agree that New Years is a good time to reflect on areas of our lives to improve on, it is also an opportunity to begin working toward what we’ve always dreamed about… opening a restaurant, owning a home, or a change in career.  But before any of these goals can be accomplished, we must take the first steps toward making it happen. 

I’ve heard that when the artist Michelangelo looked at a piece of marble, he saw the form already finished within it.  His work was simply to chip away the outer casting.  The same goes for each of us, as we go about carving the lives we choose to live each day.  But after “staring at the marble,” we must take action to get energy flowing and create reactions.  Trust me, I know first-hand that the initiative to begin can be the hardest.  Change can seem scary, as it involves risk.   But I guarantee that when you begin chipping away at what stands between you and your dreams, you will be amazed by what you find. 

Here are a few suggestions to get you started:

·         Research the basics.  What knowledge do you need to get the ball rolling?  This may involve taking a class, visiting websites for information, or speaking with people in the industry. 

·         Network.  Attend events to meet others who are doing what you want to be doing.  People are typically flattered when you ask their advice, and those contacts may come in handy in the future as you become established.

·         Volunteer your time.  Seek an internship in your chosen field or simply volunteer a few hours on weekends.  This can be a win-win as you develop new skills, meet others in the industry, and provide valuable work to a worthwhile cause or organization.

I know for sure that we are all capable of achieving the things we most desire, through careful planning and consistent execution.  But when the time is right, set your plan in motion by taking the first steps.  I wish you the very best in the coming year as you go about making your dreams a reality.

What are the first steps toward your dreams?