What's Holding You Back?

"Go confidently in the direction of your dreams.  Live the life you have imagined."

 —Henry David Thoreau

After attending the women’s conference that I blogged about the past two weeks, I didn’t think I could ever be more inspired than I was upon the event’s conclusion.  Low and behold… it happened again!  Yesterday, I attended “Life by Design: Power Day,” an empowerment workshop led by Cynthia Newman (www.CNewinspiration.com), an inspirational speaker, author and passionate advocate for the achievement of others’ dreams. 

The program allowed each of us to contemplate our own dreams, identify what’s standing in our way, and create a plan to achieve our goals.  The first and third topics were pretty simple for me; I have long identified my purpose, tangible goals, and an action plan.  But I must admit that the second, “What’s Holding You Back,” was more challenging as I was forced to focus on and admit the things that could stand in the way of reaching my destiny.   While lack of funding and other resources may create obstacles, we all agreed that psychological factors play a big part: listening to naysayers, seeking others’ approval, fear that it’s too late, and doubting our own abilities. 

It seems that no matter how confident we are at times, insecurities can creep up when we least expect them.  Perhaps you’re on your path right now, and experiencing some angst.  If so, please allow me to share the advice that helped me:

If God gave you the gifts, they're yours to pursue.  Period.

It’s SO amazing that we like to do the things we’re good at, and we’re good at the things we like to do.  But why?  Because we were all born with unique skills, talents and interests – GIFTS – that are just waiting to be developed, pursued and shared with the world – in your own time.  Our dreams manifest from our deepest passions… which no one has the right to ridicule.  And further, no one can take away your gifts because no one (on earth) gave them to you. 

I hope that this insight brings you strength, much the way it did for me.  I encourage you – as I encourage myself – to think positively and utilize your gifts to pursue your passions with vigor, so you may live the life that you have imagined. 

What stands between you and your dreams?  What are you going to do about it?

P.S.  I usually like to start each blog post with a quote from a well-known female, but this week (like last) I couldn’t help but share some of the most powerful phrases I’ve ever heard, regardless of the source.  Please take the words of Thoreau to heart as you identify and pursue your passions.