The Gift of Gratitude

“It's not how much we give but how much love we put into giving.”

-  Mother Teresa

It's hard to believe that the holiday season is officially upon us. Thanksgiving has come and gone, and Christmas will be here before we know it. Perhaps you have already begun the annual holiday traditions: hanging lights on the house, decorating the tree, and shopping for gifts. According to news reports, Black Friday was a huge success this year as thousands stormed department stores, electronic warehouses, and local boutiques in search of deals. I've never participated in this popular phenomenon, but have heard that the savings can be unbelievable! It's unfortunate that during this time of holiday cheer, the season is also infamous for people fighting over merchandise, huge credit card debt, and self-induced stress in the pursuit of the perfect gifts.

Why does the holiday season make us act this way? When you think about it, this behavior is the polar opposite of what Christmas is suppose to be about: time with loved ones, giving from the heart, and being appreciative for what we have. So how do we reclaim the essence of the holidays? This year, in addition to material things, why not give something that is truly priceless: the gift of gratitude.

When was the last time you told someone how much you appreciate them?

Was someone there for you during a difficult time? Did he/she provide a laugh when you needed it most? Has someone offered a helping hand in your time of need? If so, that person deserves your thanks. And while verbal forms of gratitude are always welcome, please consider writing it in a letter or card and sharing it with that person. Chances are, it may be the most meaningful gift he/she receives; cherished long after the fruitcakes, cashmere sweaters, and matching shirt/tie sets are long forgotten.

So this holiday season, in addition to traditional gift giving, take a few minutes to give the gift of gratitude to those who truly deserve it. It's the gift that keeps on giving.

To whom will you give the gift of gratitude this holiday season?