The Power Within

“When your life is on course with its purpose, you are your most powerful.”

- Oprah Winfrey

What comes to mind when you hear the word “Power”? Buying whatever your heart desires, turning heads wherever you go, or maybe getting others to do what you want them to do? This is external power, the kind that is often demonstrated by television personalities, role models or our world leaders.

During my personal journey, I've discovered a different kind of power. And here's the best part: you have it too. That is the power within, which comes in three parts:

The power to live the life you choose. While life may come with certain must-dos like obeying laws and paying taxes, I believe that the rest is pretty much up to you. Been dreaming about starting your own business but don't know where to start? Research your field on the internet, talk to people in the industry, go to seminars. Intrigued by that guy but scared to make the first move? Invite him for a harmless cup of coffee, a stroll in the park, whatever you're comfortable with. Want to see that movie that no one else does? Proudly purchase one ticket, sit where you choose and enjoy it like you're the only one in the theater. Bottom line: If you want something in life, you have to take chances and open yourself up to opportunities.

The power to react how you wish. This was a huge phenomenon for me. For so long, I believed that it was the other person who “made me” mad, scared or frustrated. Actually, it was me reacting to certain “triggers” over and over, just packaged differently each time. I won't bore you with the specifics, but I will tell you that as I became more self aware, I realized that the real issue was my loss of control, fear of the unknown, or not feeling heard. You have the power to perceive your own emotions as situations occur, acknowledge how you tend to react, and decide for yourself. While others may “push your buttons,” only you can control how you feel, and the actions that follow.

The power to achieve the things you most desire. They say that you can tell what a person values by the way they spend their time and money. So if there's something you desire – to go back to school, save more for retirement, or to spend more time volunteering – you have the power to make it happen. The difference between achieving such goals and not is consciously working toward them... or not. Sounds simple, sure, but there will always be unplanned expenses and obligations that require our attention, not to mention temptations to spend extra money or alternate ways to spend our time. Good old fashion planning, sacrifice and determination will help you achieve whatever you desire.

What does power mean to you?